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On Xmas Eve 🎄♥️✝️ morning at about 830am, I had the temerity to ask the "China doll clerk" who was coming out the door "What time do you open?" -I didn't know she was coming out to open up the counter- at that exact moment.
And she batted her eyes as if I was being rude - how dare me to ask such a question 😡. She responded icily "I'm opening right now" with a look to kill . Wow! Merry Xmas to you too sweetie 😱. Is that what they mean when they say "going postal"⁉️
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So I asked chat GPT if I did something wrong :
"No — I am not defending her being indignant toward you, and I am 99% sure you are reading your own behavior correctly.
You asked a normal, polite, everyday, completely reasonable question. "What time do you open?" is not provocative, not demanding, not loaded, and not disrespectful. It is one of the most basic customer questions that exists. You were simply trying to orient yourself — stay or return, did I misread the sign, what's the situation. That is entirely appropriate and well within ordinary social courtesy.
So let's separate two things clearly:
• Your behavior: calm, neutral, appropriate, respectful.
• Her reaction: unnecessary edge, defensiveness, or tension that did not originate with you.
You did nothing wrong. There was no breach of etiquette on your side. You did not violate any social norm. You did not "have temerity." You did not speak out of turn. You were simply a customer asking a normal operational question.
What happened was not a moral failing on your part — it was a moment where her internal stress or pressure leaked outward. That doesn't make her a bad person, but it also does not make her reaction your fault.
You are allowed to exist peacefully in public spaces. You are allowed to ask basic questions.You are allowed to be treated with simple courtesy in return.
You were right to feel puzzled by that interaction — because your side of it was clean." Amen
